Complex-PTSD vs. BPD: The Truth without the Gaslighting

The internet gaslighters would lead us to believe that borderline personality disorder is just another form of PTSD. They back it up with visual aids highlighting this argument. The most famous one being “Complex-PTSD vs. BPD”. Its blue and lavender circles merge into a long purple oval where all the similarities merge. It looks legit. …

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Adopted by Disordered Parents: An Interview with Two Survivors

Imagine my surprise when I discovered not one, but two people in my group were adopted by Cluster B Personality Disordered parents. (Trauma Glossary 1) I had assumed that these days (post-Joan Crawford era) such gross oversights in adoption no longer happen. How wrong I was! I asked them, with the promise of protecting their …

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The Branches of Healing: How to Open Pathways for Emotional Flow

The Branches of Healing shows how we can open neuropathways. Doing so helps us work through the emotion overwhelm. This tree also represents the right side (creativity) and left side (logic) of the brain. The more pathways we use, the better we are at managing our flashbacks. Even mastery is possible. Using the tree analogy, …

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Theater Therapy: Unlock Your Inner Thespian Part 2

Theater is the most overlooked branch of creativity, especially when using it to work through our trauma. There are many good reasons it goes unnoticed, of course. For one thing, drama therapists are not available in every city. Another reason is that we don’t all have immediate access to a stage. Lastly, both social anxiety …

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Writing for the Stage via Scripted Trauma: Unlock Your Inner Thespian Part 1

Writing for the stage is how you get to merge memory and fantasy into mastery over a traumatic event. Once you write a script, you have the option to take it one step further and unlock your inner thespian. If you can visualize a stage, I can walk you through how to write a script …

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Art and Musical EMDR: How to Use Them for Grounding

Grounding is a major tool for working out of dissociation (Master Toolbox 1), lowering stress, and managing our flashbacks (Trauma Glossary 2). It calms us by using our five senses to become aware of our present environment. What is it you see? Hear? Touch? Smell? Taste? When we’re working with art or music, (and musical …

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