This article explores the Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) in context of Narcissistic Supply (NS) and its distinct primary and secondary forms. It contrasts how the NPD differs from non-disordered people in their need for and pursuit of NS. Normal and Pathological Narcissistic Supply NS is a term used to describe both a basic and universal …
The Nature of Narcissistic Supply – Primary vs Secondary Read More »
Empathy makes us people. Empathy is the glue that holds family, friends, towns, and even nations together. It is how we navigate, how we judge right from wrong. Empathy is the core of goodness and its absence is the root cause of evil. Without empathy the link to the common human consciousness is severed – …
Empathy Has Been Hijacked and Cluster-Redefined Read More »
The censorship that’s happening across multiple social media platforms is appalling. First it was Facebook introducing its community standards, followed by Instagram, since it’s Meta owned too. Next came YouTube and then TikTok. Try watching a true crime story these days. You’d better know how to read lips because the content creators can’t say murder, …
The Censorship that Prevents Us from Raising Real Awareness Read More »
According to the Oxford dictionary, an advocate (noun) is a person who publicly supports or recommends a particular cause or policy. As a verb (actions the advocate takes) the Oxford dictionary says [to] publicly recommend or support. So, it is common sense that those who call themselves an advocate will also back it up with …
An Open Letter to the False Advocates for CPTSD Read More »
In this text I will explore the concept of owning our part in situations and discuss where this powerful tool is appropriate and contrast that to when it becomes the proverbial hammer for every job. Trauma, the commonly resulting addictions, and the world of treating these harms intersect so much that they cannot be well-understood …
Owning and Dis-Owning – When Traditional Wisdom Becomes Stupidity Read More »
The Grand Gaslit Misunderstanding Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is nearly universally claimed to be misunderstood and stigmatized [1][2][3][4][5][6][7][8]. Scour the internet to your heart’s content, aside from the occasional forum post or comment, you will be very hard pressed to find anybody speaking in seriously negative terms about BPD. Google every permutation trying to find …
A World of Gaslighting – BPD Research Exposed Read More »
Leaving an abuser can be dangerous. Divorcing one tends to be exhausting. That’s because the abuser becomes the most unstable when the victim – who they view as their property – breaks free from their control. That’s why we often see divorces from these high-conflict people drag on for years. Taylor’s story is no exception. …
Exposing the Messages My Abuser Left Me: A Survivor Shares Read More »
Suicide theater, false reporting, and abuse. We are all aware of abuse, even if not everyone knows of the abuses that don’t leave bruises. False reporting is, as its name implies, making false claims of abuse. It has the power to ruin innocent lives, particularly when the false reporter is filing their claim with law …
Suicide Theater, False Reporting, and Abuse: A Survivor’s Tell-All Read More »
Escaping coercive control tends to be even more perilous than living in it. For one thing, there’s a science behind the reason we see domestic violence victims return to their abusers several times before they leave for good. If they leave at all. And the other thing is how the abuser tends to pose the …
Escaping Coercive Control: An Interview with a Survivor Read More »
Meet Taylor and her partner, Don, happily together for five years now. Canada is their home, where they run a farm together. Taylor has autism. She is also a survivor of domestic violence from her ex-husband who had BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder Trauma Glossary 1). Having been well acquainted with her beautiful mind for over …
Autism vs. BPD: The Stark Contrasts in Neurodivergence Read More »
